A Private Letter
My precious Daughter ,
I want to wish you a טובה שנה, a sweet new year, and share a few things with you that I think you need you to know.
When I look at you I see something very different than what you see when you look in the mirror. You see yourself as you are now. But when I look at you I see who you can become. My primary goal is to help you grow from where you are now to where I know you can be.
Sometimes you are already challenging yourself and pushing yourself to become that person that I created you to become. So, I just watch, with great nachas, and gently guide you in that direction. I orchestrate the events and experiences of your day-to-day life to ensure the maximum possibility of your achievement of that goal.
Other times, I must present you with challenges and hurdles to convert your potential greatness into actualized excellence. I know that those moments are sometime painful, but if I don’t challenge you then you will never actualize your potential. Please remember that I am closer to you during those moments than I am at any other time.
I want to tell you about one of my most important employees. He is the Vice President of Human Development. His name is הרע יצר, the evil inclination, and he works for me 365 days a year, 24/7. The הרע יצר gets a bad rap, but he is really your best friend. If it weren’t for him, you would remain a nobody forever. I have empowered him to provide you with constant assaults and to approach you with a never-ending barrage of creative tactics, but they only come to challenge you to grow and improve yourself. The הרע יצר and I have only one goal for each encounter you have with him: We both want you to overpower him and show him what you are made of. Of course, once you do that, I send him back with a more difficult obstacle to overcome, because
that’s how you really become great.
Here’s some good advice: Speak to Me. Often. And don’t think I only understand Hebrew. I understand every language there is. So, speak to Me in your own language. And you don’t have to wait to be in a shul; speak to Me any time of day, no matter what you’re doing – when you’re driving your car, when you’re taking a walk. Speak to Me before you go to sleep. And most of all, speak to Me when you need help. I am always available and I really am a good listener. In fact, I understand you better than anyone else (even yourself) because you are Mine and I made you. So, don’t be shy, don’t feel awkward; just pour your heart out to Me and I promise I will respond.
And take advantage of the special days of the year I give you; it’s My special gift for you. Turn off your phone, computer, iPad and all those other gadgets and use the quiet time to celebrate your most important relationships: your relationship with Me, your relationship with yourself
and your relationships with those special people that you are closest to. Even if you can’t carve out the whole day for this purpose, at least use some of the day to connect to Me.
I will let you in on a secret: I am talking to you all the time but I speak in a faint whisper. You have so many competing sounds, a cacophony of noises going on around you that drown Me out. Find some quiet time and listen. You will be amazed what you hear.
Don’t try to go through the journey of life on your own. I want you to find a mentor who can guide you and teach you and show you how to find Me and connect to Me. When you find that person, cling to him and don’t let go. Make him teach you and guide you and take his
advice to heart.
In addition, find someone to take this journey with. It is a lot easier to make this trek if you have someone with whom to share the journey. You can both make sure you are staying on target and heading toward your goals.
השנה ראש is coming up. It’s the birthday of mankind, when I revise the plan of human history and write the next act for the year to come. Think about what major role you want to take. I am willing to let you play any role that you are committed to play. So, think big and create a passionate vision of who you want to be this coming year. And on השנה ראש, instead of counting the number of pages left in the מחזור, talk to Me and tell Me what role you want to play.
The Book of Life will be open on that day and I am putting the pen in your hands. Choose life.
Your Father in Heaven who believes in you and loves you unconditionally.